Jourdane E.

@jourdaney

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👩‍💻 : Writer✍ Fashion Blogger📸 Wanderlust🏖 Doesn't really know the purpose of existence; strives to be passionate anyway.
Just because it didn’t last forever does not mean that it wasn’t meant for you. We think of fate in forever terms, that only the truest love will stand the rest of time and walk through a lifetime with us. But what if there is another way to see it? What if we are meant for different people and places and things as we evolve? What if it is okay to let go of old dreams, the ones we may have chosen for people we no longer are? Maybe the relationship wasn’t wrong. Maybe it was so right, it taught you exactly what you needed to know to grow into the person you are today. Maybe that was the point all along.

 #relationshipgoals  #relationshipquotes  #relationshipadvice  #movingon  #selfrealization  #selfdiscovery  #selfie

Just because it didn’t last forever does not mean that it wasn’t meant for you. We think of fate in forever terms, that only the truest love will stand the rest of time and walk through a lifetime with us. But what if there is another way to see it? What if we are meant for different people and places and things as we evolve? What if it is okay to let go of old dreams, the ones we may have chosen for people we no longer are? Maybe the relationship wasn’t wrong. Maybe it was so right, it taught you exactly what you needed to know to grow into the person you are today. Maybe that was the point all along. #relationshipgoals #relationshipquotes #relationshipadvice #movingon #selfrealization #selfdiscovery #selfie

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a month ago
It's been a while since I was able to grab a hold and cook baby lobsters for my family. Well, I consider today a very lucky day for the fam.

 #lobster  #foodporn  #food  #foodie  #palmsunday  #blacksabbath  #goodfriday  #holyweek  #holyweek2021  #foodblogger  #foodblog

It's been a while since I was able to grab a hold and cook baby lobsters for my family. Well, I consider today a very lucky day for the fam. #lobster #foodporn #food #foodie #palmsunday #blacksabbath #goodfriday #holyweek #holyweek2021 #foodblogger #foodblog

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2 months ago
You will love again. You will love again even though their last words are still dancing in your head. You will love again even though they promised you forever and still walked away. You will love again even though your heart is still beating to the sound of their name. Because the crazy thing about love is that it always comes back. And you probably won’t recognize it at first. Because love comes back wearing different bones. Loves comes back holding you with different arms. Love comes back with brown eyes instead of blue. Love comes back when you’re not ready, and it comes back when you are. Love comes back saying “I love you” in a voice you haven’t heard before, showing you that they mean what they say with different gestures and different ways to let you know they are yours. Love comes back with quirks and hands you’ll have to learn all over again. And I know. I know that all of this means nothing right now. I know this doesn’t fix the fact that your heart is still aching. I know your mind is still consumed with what ifs. I know how hard it is to move on and break free. But you need to let go. It’s the only way to become whole again. It’s the only way to invite love back. Because if you don’t walk away, you risk missing the chance to meet another love again. You miss your shot at second love or third love or even fifth love. You’re keeping yourself caged in something that just isn’t meant to be. So as hard as it is, as much as it hurts, have faith in the universe and have faith in yourself that you will fall in love again. After all, you already have once. 

 #loveyourself  #movingon  #lettinggo  #selfdiscovery  #selflove  #selfrealization  #wanderlust  #myheart  #travel  #travelgoals  #explore  #unrequitedlove

You will love again. You will love again even though their last words are still dancing in your head. You will love again even though they promised you forever and still walked away. You will love again even though your heart is still beating to the sound of their name. Because the crazy thing about love is that it always comes back. And you probably won’t recognize it at first. Because love comes back wearing different bones. Loves comes back holding you with different arms. Love comes back with brown eyes instead of blue. Love comes back when you’re not ready, and it comes back when you are. Love comes back saying “I love you” in a voice you haven’t heard before, showing you that they mean what they say with different gestures and different ways to let you know they are yours. Love comes back with quirks and hands you’ll have to learn all over again. And I know. I know that all of this means nothing right now. I know this doesn’t fix the fact that your heart is still aching. I know your mind is still consumed with what ifs. I know how hard it is to move on and break free. But you need to let go. It’s the only way to become whole again. It’s the only way to invite love back. Because if you don’t walk away, you risk missing the chance to meet another love again. You miss your shot at second love or third love or even fifth love. You’re keeping yourself caged in something that just isn’t meant to be. So as hard as it is, as much as it hurts, have faith in the universe and have faith in yourself that you will fall in love again. After all, you already have once.  #loveyourself #movingon #lettinggo #selfdiscovery #selflove #selfrealization #wanderlust #myheart #travel #travelgoals #explore #unrequitedlove

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6 months ago
Just because you choose to walk away doesn’t mean you no longer care. It just means you’ve placed more value in yourself rather than something that isn’t safe for your soul. Sometimes we think we can only love people if they are in our lives and close to us. That if we choose to no longer keep them close that we all of a sudden will stop caring. Distance is a way for you to honor yourself and protect your own boundaries and standards. It’s ok to still have love for people from a distance. It’s ok to realize that just because you care for them doesn’t mean they belong in your life. It’s a conflicting truth that sometimes feels at odds with what we truly want but, sometimes what we truly want is not always what the universe has in store for us. Rest assured that protecting your own heart creates alignment with your true self. There’s nothing better than being able to trust your decisions and truly know what is best for you. Honor yourself.

 #love  #lettinggoquotes  #unrequitedlove  #movingon  #movingonquotes  #heartbroken  #selfdiscovery   #travel  #adventureawaits  #travelgoals  #wanderlust  #learningexperience

Just because you choose to walk away doesn’t mean you no longer care. It just means you’ve placed more value in yourself rather than something that isn’t safe for your soul. Sometimes we think we can only love people if they are in our lives and close to us. That if we choose to no longer keep them close that we all of a sudden will stop caring. Distance is a way for you to honor yourself and protect your own boundaries and standards. It’s ok to still have love for people from a distance. It’s ok to realize that just because you care for them doesn’t mean they belong in your life. It’s a conflicting truth that sometimes feels at odds with what we truly want but, sometimes what we truly want is not always what the universe has in store for us. Rest assured that protecting your own heart creates alignment with your true self. There’s nothing better than being able to trust your decisions and truly know what is best for you. Honor yourself. #love #lettinggoquotes #unrequitedlove #movingon #movingonquotes #heartbroken #selfdiscovery #travel #Adventureawaits #travelgoals #wanderlust #learningexperience

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7 months ago
Ever since I was a child I have always wanted to become  #victoriassecretangel but life happened and my weight went on a frenzy so thanks to this reface app I can now look at myself looking like one. Haha 😅 

 #victoriassecret  #vsangel  #travelgoals  #adventure  #wanderlust  #weightgoals  #imgoingonadiet  #weightlossjourney  #weightloss  #bodygoals  #imlookingatyou

Ever since I was a child I have always wanted to become #victoriassecretangel but life happened and my weight went on a frenzy so thanks to this reface app I can now look at myself looking like one. Haha 😅 #victoriassecret #vsangel #travelgoals #adventure #wanderlust #weightgoals #imgoingonadiet #weightlossjourney #weightloss #bodygoals #imlookingatyou

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10 months ago
We hold on to those who cannot love us for so many reasons. Sometimes, we hold on because we convince ourselves that the circumstance will change — that if we love harder, if we give more, if we stay, the situation will evolve. The value of our love will be recognized, it will be chosen. Sometimes, we hold on because we feel like we have to. We feel like we have to be the ones to fix, the ones to mend, the ones to prove that human beings don’t give up on a person they see something beautiful within. Sometimes, we hold on because we feel guilty, because we think that walking away, and choosing ourselves, is us discarding someone we care about, is us abandoning their heart. And sometimes, we hold on because we think that we will never find the kind of person who proves to us that love is not something that is meant to hurt. Sometimes, we hold on because we lose our belief in the fact that love has the potential to be soft, that there is more to life than what we are settling for. Sometimes, we hold on because we would rather sleep beside someone who makes us feel lonely, than be alone. Sometimes, we hold on because it is easier to fill our voids with another human being, even when they cannot value us, because we are still learning how to value ourselves. We hold on to those who cannot love us for so many reasons. And it is okay. Letting go is one of the hardest things you'll have to do. But at the end of the day, keeping someone in your life who makes you feel like you are too much, who asks for you to quiet your soul — that is the greatest injustice you will ever impart on your heart. That is doing yourself a deep disservice, because you deserve to be surrounded by people who make you feel seen. You deserve to be surrounded by people who nourish you and challenge you and dizzy you in the best ways. It is important to learn how to stop romanticizing the things in your life that hurt. It is important to walk away, even when it is hard, even when you do not want to face the loss, because it is within that hardship that you will learn how to choose your own heart. That you will learn how to stand up for it.

 #lettinggo  #movingforward  #movingon  #unrequitedlove  #covid

We hold on to those who cannot love us for so many reasons. Sometimes, we hold on because we convince ourselves that the circumstance will change — that if we love harder, if we give more, if we stay, the situation will evolve. The value of our love will be recognized, it will be chosen. Sometimes, we hold on because we feel like we have to. We feel like we have to be the ones to fix, the ones to mend, the ones to prove that human beings don’t give up on a person they see something beautiful within. Sometimes, we hold on because we feel guilty, because we think that walking away, and choosing ourselves, is us discarding someone we care about, is us abandoning their heart. And sometimes, we hold on because we think that we will never find the kind of person who proves to us that love is not something that is meant to hurt. Sometimes, we hold on because we lose our belief in the fact that love has the potential to be soft, that there is more to life than what we are settling for. Sometimes, we hold on because we would rather sleep beside someone who makes us feel lonely, than be alone. Sometimes, we hold on because it is easier to fill our voids with another human being, even when they cannot value us, because we are still learning how to value ourselves. We hold on to those who cannot love us for so many reasons. And it is okay. Letting go is one of the hardest things you'll have to do. But at the end of the day, keeping someone in your life who makes you feel like you are too much, who asks for you to quiet your soul — that is the greatest injustice you will ever impart on your heart. That is doing yourself a deep disservice, because you deserve to be surrounded by people who make you feel seen. You deserve to be surrounded by people who nourish you and challenge you and dizzy you in the best ways. It is important to learn how to stop romanticizing the things in your life that hurt. It is important to walk away, even when it is hard, even when you do not want to face the loss, because it is within that hardship that you will learn how to choose your own heart. That you will learn how to stand up for it. #lettinggo #movingforward #movingon #unrequitedlove #covid

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11 months ago